10 yrs later

[Irish M]

Hi Mirage

Great reading your update . What you said about reinventing yourself. It’s so true. I know I’m not the same type of person I was before BD.

Sure I was a dad but not to the level I am today. Not sure if it’s survival mode but taking on both rolls of mom and dad was a journey. I’m thankful today that I am so close to my girls , I think the bond we have now is at the highest level .

Do I wish MLC never hit my family and wife. Of course

But what it gave me in return is unbelievable

I have to love my girls twice as much. Filling my ex’s shoes. But in return I get twice as much back from them as well

Thanks again Mirage for all the guidance you give
You are a blessing