I did say that she needs to understand that my kids are my absolute world, and that I am going to have a hard time not seeing them... to which she said "so are you going to fight me for custody?!" I told her that is not what I am saying, I have not thought about that yet - but just telling her how I feel about the kids and what she is doing to them.
Learn not to talk so much.
W:"so are you going to fight me for custody?!" H:"I have no intention of fight you for custody. My understanding is that the kids need both their parents equally in their lives to grow up healthy. Which parenting plan sounds better to you, "week on/week off" or a 2/3/3/2 arrangement?" W:"Bla bla bla bbla @$$hole Bla bla you can't take my kids away....blaa blaa bla" H:"Sorry you feel that way. If divorce is the only way for you to be happy, I will not stand in your way, but joint custody arrangements is best for the kids, and I will do whatever is best for my kids, with or without you." W:'Bla bla bla bla bla"
I think she is proposing 50/50. But honestly I am having a hard time imagining not seeing my kids everyday. I am one of those dads who cant go a day without playing with each kid. I actually get frustrated if I am at work late and dont have time to see them.
But I see what you are saying, thank you for the advice.
