Originally Posted by svdad
Less than average I would assume - but it was there (sort of smile ... )


Only you know if your needs were getting met or not. Sound like not.


Originally Posted by svdad
since right off the bat we went from an "OK" marriage (one I had no idea she was this upset .. would never have even imagined D talk!) to wanting a D within weeks of letting me know how unhappy she was.

Any changes to your sex life prior to BD initiated by her? If so, that may be a red flag of possible OM.


Tarzan never lets go of his vine until he has a good grip on the next one.

Most people are the same way. They don't drop the first lover until they have a new one. You may be unique.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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