To anyone still following, thank you for the support. This site has been my lifeline and I’m here for anyone else going through a similar situation.
To sum up in a very very brief manner:
Husband becomes distant Affair discovered DB techniques applied Reconciled Unexpectedly got pregnant Husband left Husband initiated divorced Divorced religiously and civil law I began. To date someone else
So as outlined in my previous post, i met someone new. My ex has his suspicions but doesn’t know anything for definite. We are waiting until we are certain this will be a commitment before he meets the kids, ex is made aware etc (dating isn’t really allowed in Islam)
I feel happy, for the first time in years. I can be me and laugh and joke and be sarcastic without the eye rolls or the disapproving looks. I am enjoying feeling like me and feeling like a woman. And to anyone new, this is something i never ever thought was possible.
Ex is still trying his best for sex but not necessarily anything else. Of course i am not allowing this behavior. He is still very much the same and in his own bubble.
I shall try my best to be more active amongst this forum. I’m in no way an example of DBing to save my M. But i DB’d and saved my sanity.
Me 26 H 25 M 4 T 5 Baby born 4/14 BD: 1/15 EA: 2/15 PA: 4/15 reconciling: 4/15 ILYBINILWY- 11/15 ILY-1/16 ILYBNILWY 4/16 ILY 6/16 ILYBINILWY 6/16 Baby due 3/17 BD 8/16
