Originally Posted by Bern19
Not loving the idea of a separation for the kids sake though.
We are all in agreement here. We all wish that our spouse were logical about this.

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I know the two youngest will be traumatized
Your W is the one doing the destruction to the family.

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and the ww will actually believe that their pain is on me.
Do lots of reading on how to respond to these false accusations from her.

Do not rush anything. Make a plan. Execute the plan. Do not rush. Set boundaries that you can and will enforce.


Do not "decide" on anything with your emotions. Fight this battle with logic.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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