She knows what she is saying by telling me we don’t have a relationship anymore. So then set a schedule, split the finances, move out (one of you), and go dark. If she can't afford it that is not your problem.
She is intent on moving out and doing all of that.
Originally Posted by ovrrnbw
Originally Posted by Phoenix9
I go back in the past and look at her downs and her demonstrating the pain she is in between her moments of OM2.
Why would she be telling you about this, she told you that you and her have no relationship. Hold her to her word and let her know verbally or through action that you aren't her shoulder to cry on anymore.
She told me there was no relationship when we had our "No D" chat. This is the first time she told me. I told her that our R was over back a month ago (another case of saying too much).
She is now giving me the business-like treatment that I was giving her and has gone dark herself. The switch pretty much flipped right after our no-D chat.
And again, even now, I'm second guessing everything I have said and going to say. Sandi was right. My self-respect has totally tanked.
