Joe, your family and friends who supported you during the divorce will support you through reconciliation. They are worried about you, and that you will be hurt again. I haven't seen this discussed on this forum, but she broke faith with them, too, and I think they have to go through a sort of internal reconciliation with your W, or at least learn or begin to trust her again.
M:23 T:26 Me:53, Wife: 60 S:18 D:16 filed 7/16 W moved out 4/28/17