In addition to lawyer

I think you need to talk to your family court judge

Or court appointed social worker

Warning that social worker is supposed to not to take sides

This is very serious

Prayers for you and s9

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving