(((FS))). I stand by my previous thoughts which is that your H is one of the ones who is going to want to come home at some point. The decision is yours, however, as to how long it is you want to wait for that to happen. His connection to you is still quite strong which is why he hasn’t really pushed for any legal agreements. He has you down as Plan B and I suspect he is quite happy to continue on the way he has been for as long as he thinks you are okay with it. Right now, he sees you pretty consistently and he part-time parents so that he can also have time to himself that he wants with no requirement that he devote some of his free time to you and your MR. It is a good deal for him. But is it a good deal for YOU? For now, maybe, but I sense you are going to want some movement on this soon, one way or the other, as it is really hard to live in limbo long term. (((HUGS)))
