Nothing is wrong with you. Hold your W to her word.

Originally Posted by Phoneix9
She knows what she is saying by telling me we don’t have a relationship anymore
So then set a schedule, split the finances, move out (one of you), and go dark. If she can't afford it that is not your problem.

Originally Posted by Phoenix9
I go back in the past and look at her downs and her demonstrating the pain she is in between her moments of OM2.
Why would she be telling you about this, she told you that you and her have no relationship. Hold her to her word and let her know verbally or through action that you aren't her shoulder to cry on anymore.

Your WW is disrespectful. I think you should read these quotes and take a tougher approach. I felt stronger just reading this:


http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2045336#Post2045336


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.