typical WW on my hands

[ovrrnbw]

I should also add that i started going to my own IC when the BD happened. She was adamant she did not want to go to MC and that she is closed up to me, and there is no way that is changed. She is now 'changed' due to our arguments and how I would attack her character. She remembers everything negative about our relationship. Says we aren't meant to be together, etc.

Typical WW/WH talk. Don't believe anything she says on only half of what she does.

I think she is only going to appease me and justify to her that she ticked the box of "trying" before filing the D.

Yep. So don't try to get her to go. She'll then wonder why you stopped asking her to go and fix this. Then she'll start temp checking and trying to get you back on the hook.

So what should I do?

Like Hurt said:
- detach
-180
-GAL