I wouldn't bother going to IC just to out your W as still cheating. Just do it in MC and save yourself the time. Follow R2C's boundaries for what he wants from his woman. If you're ready to file, file. If not, move on without filing.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.