Story and Symptoms of a WAW/MLC

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I don't know that we're saying to be selfish or to be better than your spouse. How do you measure being "better" than someone anyways?

The advice is to respect her decision to want out of the marriage and let her feel the consequences of that choice. In the meantime, you stop worrying about what you can't control and go make yourself a better person.

I'm still trying to get a grasp on the female psychology I'm being more empathetic rather than self-centered I hope something that's difficult for guys to grasp at first and how to respond when prompted for connection.

Not sure what you meant to say here.