Originally Posted by Did
It’s sad. There’s nothing I can do but move on. Being that I do still want the relationship I’m not sure it makes sense to file. Just go dark I suppose. And commit to it long term.
Hallelujah!

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I did not respond. I will not talk to her about anything but D4 and financial / divorce. No help with housing decisions for her or work or anything else.
Great.

Originally Posted by Steve85
If you were in the place you said you were prior to lunch you would have marched right to your L and MOVED ON.
Or just totally taken action to remove her as a priority in his life. Steve, do you think it's possible to move on without filing for divorce?

Did, I don't know about the IC. You obviously don't agree with her on the divorce, that's plain as day. Separation doesn't work for you, but you aren't ready to divorce so it's limbo for you. You have to make the most of it! As far as making your life better and improving as a man, we all think you should do that! So do it and let your W wonder what you're up to.

Last edited by Cadet; 01/30/19 03:05 PM. Reason: Start a new thread message

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Divorce Busted Spring 19

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