You just reminded me of something that John Eldridge said in his book: Waking the Dead. He pointed out the Christianity is meant to be practiced in small groups. Not huge churches or by yourself. If you're in a large church you need to build a small core of people where you can grow with each other and watch each other's backs.
This, of course, is much easier said than done. But thinking more about it, what if I put as much energy into building such a group as I do trying to piece my marriage back together (if it ever really WERE together.)
