It's never easy when dealing w/someone in crisis. I don't envy you having to work on the discovery. It's time consuming, but necessary. Be sure to make copies of things...just in case they are requested later on.
Try to have a good day.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
