Originally Posted by IHCLACS
Get a load of this? Wife just told me tonight that her brother's wife just seperated from him and looks at him as "just a friend" and decided to move back in with her patents after being married for only a year and a half. So now I'm trying to help him understand what's going on. So women change their minds like this is definitely an attraction issue. Wife told me that that's my brother-in-law started his new job this year he kind of let himself go. The women of today I noticed are always looking outside of themselves to justify and validate their existence.


I know it is easy to get bitter and to blame the other gender for all of our ills. I get it. But you need to really try to stay grounded here. Not every W does this. Not every woman looks external for internal validation. So to start generalizing, while it makes us feel good about about ourselves, doesn't solve our own crisis. Sometimes I think we as humans like to over blow things to make them bigger than we are to say "there was nothing I could do!". Every thing that happens is an opportunity for self improvement. The problem comes when we take the focus off of ourselves.


M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018