It's late at night and I'm thinking about you.....hahaha!
Man oh man I think you have so much potential. I want you to go to bern19s thread and click R2Cs link. Spend some time reading those old quotes and old posters.
It's OK to be angry about stuff like your W cheating or some POS OM making a cake for you. I'd have said something mean there...
You take it too far when you act outside of your values. That's it.
Your W has faced no consequences for her actions. She hasn't lost you and she's called the shots. I think it's time for one of you to move out. When I got ballsy, I moved back into my MBR and said tough $hit. to my W. Davide went the other direction and that worked for him. R2Cs boundaries have stuck with me so well, so I stole them. I hope you take a look at his 2 part approach there and employ it in a casual, cordial way.
It's time you and I demand better treatment. This soft approach isn't working. I think you're talking to your W too much. And it's time to separate accounts.
Also I saw you used the word "our". I hope you start saying "mine".
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
