Thank Cadet. I have read up on the other posts the last couple of days before posting this - so I am fairly knowledgable so far. I am just wondering what my options are since right off the bat we went from an "OK" marriage (one I had no idea she was this upset .. would never have even imagined D talk!) to wanting a D within weeks of letting me know how unhappy she was. Just wondering if I should try to slow it down or just go with it?
