Can I ask what you praying folks pray for? I used to pray that W would want me, but I know that's not going to happen. I know, I know...all things are possible with God. But the problem is my W's will and God won't change a person's will.
The only prayer I've found to work is to ask for strength for each day. That helps me not to look at the barely Spandex covered women at the gym and not to react to women who flirt (and know what they're doing, dang it!).