For someone that remains 100% committed to getting a divorce what is holding her back? Why will she not actually proceed with S in any way?
It is more than likely because you have taken the pressure off her so she has slowed the process down.
Originally Posted by RyanHun
If W was to come to me tomorrow and beg for me to stay I'm not sure if I would even consider it.
I think you are BSing yourself but why even worry about that right now.
Originally Posted by RyanHun
My rediscovered self worth and realization of how I should be treated by someone that supposedly loves me have really opened my eyes. I am really enjoying bachelor life style, going out with friends on the days I don't have the kids and not having to answer to anyone, sitting on the couch with a glass of wine, music and a book for hours in the evening and not having to worry about a thing, the thought of buying a new place and decorating to my liking all are very exciting to me. I really just want to get things moving forward. I'm 33 years old and should be having the time of my life.
There are a lot of positives about getting divorced. More than most newbies can even imagine.
