So I’ve been following the detaching advice and I think it may be working? But I can’t say for certain. He’s been communicating more about where he’s going and what he’s doing, when he’ll be home (on the days he decides to come home, some nights he doesn’t but he has been telling me when he won’t be so that’s good?) He still makes comments about what he’ll be doing once it’s just him (like getting Hello Fresh and cancelling his Dish plan) It’s silly because they’re small things but it puts in my mind that he is thinking about his future with out me. I just need to keep reminding myself he’s not thinking about me. He’s thinking about what’s best for him.
I’ll be moving out in about a month and I plan to keep this up as long as I can. I’m not sure when or if he plans to give me divorce papers. I want to ask if he thinks we should just spend some time apart instead of fully separating but I don’t know when it’s a good time to bring something like that up. I know right now it isn’t because we’re still working on positive interactions and I don’t want to push him backwards. Any thoughts on when it’s a good time for me to bring this up?
