I was talking with Jack today. He told me a few things about his XAPWW Jill

1. When himself and Jill were in the affair and finally living with each other, (she moved out from BH apartment directly into Jack's apartment in 24 hours).

2. During the Affair, she would often till Jack, she felt bad about what she did to BH, (i never meant to hurt anyone)

3. About 18 months into the affair, she began saying things to Jack (I miss my family, i miss my home)

4. It was around this time he began to feel "I'm looking over my shoulder again"

5. The relationship was never comfortable with Jill, i never felt secure.

6. I haven't heard from Jill in months. I don't think things will work out with her BH. She is very immature and hasn't worked on herself.

Just thought these things were interesting.


BH: 36 WW:33
M: 2
Relationship: 6 years. Dday: Aug 2018
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1st mention of D: 30/09, 2nd Mention 17/02/2019
LRT: Oct 2018
WW & AP: EA & PA since June 2018 (Moved country and in with AP Feb 2019)