Alright. I hear what everyone is saying about respect, and I clearly understand why she's lost most of it over the years for me, so my lack of follow-through on some things and not handling situations right over the years. she doesn't respect me anymore as a provider and a man I get that. I realized I women do this kind of crazy stuff to see if the people are really going to stick around for them, or leave then even though I know she's seeking the life out of survival elsewhere right now. Still fantasy. I asked her about Iowa over the weekend after we went out to dinner with the kid.
She alluded to possibly moving out there to Iowa but it's all just dreams right now and not reality. Maybe in a year or so and then she briefly mention that I would be welcome to follow her and live nearby for the sake of our son.
even if I snooping was illegitimate I'm not letting this woman disgrace me disgrace our family disgrace our marriage and disgrace my household. Fantasy or no fantasy.
I'm thinking about taking back the MBR this and telling her she can move anywhere else in the house if she wants her space. I just need to make sure that I get my firearms out of the house first and record the conversation just in case she goes crazy on me. She has a firearm as well. I'm not worried about either or, but you never know. I guess I know it was an illegitimate of me for snooping but I want to confront her and I want the whole truth to come from her mouth and I want to present the evidence to her. My son needs a father and the family my wife needs a man and a husband. I intend to remain cool, collected not confrontational at all if I do decide to do this but I will presented with the evidence. and she will get a speech that she will not disgrace my name or my family or my bedroom or my home or our son. My leadership is going to start going through the roof with everything in the finances where we go out how we schedule time projects etc.
For some reason the movie The Quiet Man with John Wayne and Maureen O'Hara at the ending when she tried to leave so she thought he was a coward. If she wants to plan our Fantasy Skate plan that's fine by me I won't divorce her but she's not taking my son anywhere
