Building my best self and life with or without W

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I’m not going to even discuss the support. I’m going to ask her what she wants. And I’m going to mention some things I’m doing with my life. Including blog / book which will be pretty personal. As well as discuss D4. If she shows no interest in being more than d4s mom in my life. I’m going to tell her she should do the work to get the divorce and that I’m done with separation and leeway. End game. Maybe we won’t even get there if we just get along well maybe I leave it at that and give more time. I really don’t have an exact plan but I don’t want this separation to continue. And I’m paying less support.