Uncertain of What I Have (Thread 5)

[Adam04]

They all start out that way and are high on emotion, so they will swing from one to the other. They'll want you non-existant and then the next worry about how they felt and want to see you okay and feel guilty and then try to justify how they felt in the first place but now are unsure how to feel and you are on the side tryin got help them sort through this mess? no way... even if you think you are helping by saying something you think they will pick up and say "oh yeah why didn't I think of that." It wont help.

Whether she has the gusto to do it, try not to do anything to push her into that. No pressure. The counter-intuitive approach.

Threats are about control. if you know what you are standing for is right and she is trying to make you buckle, then don't.


You don't have to be in control of the situation. let that part of your thinking go. I know its hard. be in control of yourself. time changes, you must change with the time. Today there are 5,454, 879,367 words for you to choose from that could help you ease your mind. Do you know which ones those are? "I am in control." Once you pick something that resonates with you, you will start to believe it, feel it, then you can practice living it.