Glad to hear that your kids are giving you some smiles. I am sorry that everything else continues to be a struggle. Best wishes are you head toward your birthday and Valentine's Day. Days that are supposed to be celebratory are really tough.
Continue as you have been. She's going to be angry for quite some time and when she starts being nice, you will need to stay on your toes. They flip flop from angry to nice and back again if they don't get what they want.
I think you are doing well in shutting those pesky conversations down.
Last edited by job; 01/29/1907:51 PM. Reason: added link to new thread
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.