Uncertain of What I Have (Thread 5)

[Wanted1]

My only response to your response is that ALL WAWs are all for D at first. Some are more sure of themselves than others, but outwardly they all give the front that they are. The ones that follow through and file are those that are really sure its what they want. Until you see that activity I always question, despite how outwardly they insist, just how sure it is what they want.

Is it possible they file and are still "unsure"? Have you seen that situation at all? My wife filed, never told me, and then about a week later I told her that I noticed she filed (we are both attorneys, so I was able to log in to the court system to see that it was filed that day she did it) about a week later and she said that she "prayed about whether or not to go through with filing before beforehand and then figured 'what's the point.'" She then tried to turn it around on me and said she figured since I signed the certificate of service that that meant I wanted her to file. This is patently false since I have a text message that I sent to her stating that if this is what she wants, I won't stand in the way anymore. I don't know if she is truly off her rocker and thought that or if that is just her trying to manipulate me. I would guess the latter. Maybe she thought she was going to call my bluff or prove to me that "she means business"? I don't know.

In the meantime, I told her I want to see a draft of a proposed property settlement and child custody agreement. She obliged and of course did a 180 on everything we sort of agreed to verbally months ago. We then exchanged 3 emails back and forth on some of the particulars. The last email was a response from me to her about some of the things we weren't seeing eye to eye on. I haven't heard anything more from her 3 weeks or so. I am very curious if her non response is a sign of some hesitation or not? I'm not going to bring it up until I hear something back from her. It's up to her at this point to continue the process.