Hello Wave22

Thank you for your kind comments regarding me and my thread.

I understand your reluctance to link your past threads with the previous inference from OW. Staying anonymous is a good idea.

Originally Posted by Wave22
I'm really thinking that I never got to detatchment. I never fully detached after all this time.

I am wondering why you think so, or why you feel so.

Do you mean detachment? Or indifference?

Did H’s voicemail cause an uncontrollable emotional response? That would look like a lack of detachment.

Or did you just feel something which did not completely overtake you? Then indifference is what you have not obtained.

To me, reading what you have shared so far, I would say that it is indifference you are referred to. And that you are almost fully detached.

However, it is your assessment that truly matters. smile You are still the most important person in all of this.

DnJ

Feelings are fleeting.
Be better, not bitter.
Love the person, forgive the sin.