Dealing with a WW and finding my happiness pt. 5

[SoTorn]

The constant barrage of criticism and judgement continues from WW. My three kids asked me to buy them some shoes. So I did.

As I'm doing my homework, sitting in the same room as WW. I get a text saying "instead of buying the kids stuff they dont need why dont you try and pay for the groceries. I wont let you turn them into vain materialistic kids "

I spoke up because I'm tired of the passive aggressive bullshit. I told WW to pay attention and she would notice that after I had to get D16 to tell me how much groceries were, I transferred half of what they cost into the joint account. I do that even though legally I'm not required to and if there were a legal requirement, me paying 50% of everything would not be considered an equitable amount since WW makes a ton more. Equitable would be more like me paying 30% of everything.

I again asked her to please stop with the unwanted and unwarranted BS. Then I advised her that me buying the kids shoes was because they asked and her assumption that I am vain and trying to make them vain is ridiculous.

I told her that I dont care what she thinks of me but trying to claim I'm making our kids vain because I like to dress nice and they wanted shoes was completely outrageous.

WW said "why dont yiu be an adult and not talk about this now because that's why I sent the text instead of talking about it?"

I told WW that if she wanted to act like an adult she would cease this completely unnecessary conflict.

This woman is a real piece of work. How dare I buy myself new clothes after losing 90lbs and how dare I want to dress nice.

I told WW that if she goes shopping, to either leave the receipts out or tell me how much she spent, like I have asked her to about a dozen times now, because I cannot read her mind.