I know this is tough but take it from someone who did everything wrong for way too long. You have to be strong and give him lots of space...more than he wants.
Well soon he will have an entire country's worth of space. We live on the east coast and I'm moving back home to be with my family on the opposite side of the country. I want to stay but I feel like I don't have the emotional support that I need here. All our friends here are shared friends (he's friends with the husband, I'm friends with the wife) and I don't want to get into too much detail with them because a) they'll just share it and b) I don't want to hurt his relationships with his friends. His family is here and keeps trying to talk to me about it but I don't feel like i can share it with them because after everything, they're still his family, not mine.
I know I need to do whats best for me, and I feel like this is it, but its just so hard to let go.
Does anyone have experience of letting someone go and having them come back?
