Oh no, I don't want to be rude to him, I'm just having a hard time with backing away from thoughts of "What does he mean when he says that, or does this." I feel like I have to back off for my own sanity and keep things civil yet lots of space.


Together for 13 years, married for 8.
H is 46
I'm 40
S is 6
Bombdrop in April 2018
Still in limbo as of 2019