Oh no, I don't want to be rude to him, I'm just having a hard time with backing away from thoughts of "What does he mean when he says that, or does this." I feel like I have to back off for my own sanity and keep things civil yet lots of space.
Together for 13 years, married for 8. H is 46 I'm 40 S is 6 Bombdrop in April 2018 Still in limbo as of 2019