I don't have time right now to give a full response, but I do want to say that I understand where I slipped.I am still not detached from her. I tell myself I am working on it because her actions are not affecting me as negatively as it used to. That being said, I know I need to keep my mouth shut. I try to ask for help by coming up with a response and asking for help here. It's not because I am on the fence of saying it, it's because in my mind, it is the right thing to say. Looking back Sandi, me telling WW that I did not want a D was a huge screw up.
And Sandi (and everyone else here). If I'm not being harped on, how will I learn? A good portion of the changes I have made is due to the tough love everyone has given to me. You do it because you care. Not because you're mean.
I'll continue to work on balance. It's something that has been pointed out to me by many others and it is a problem.
ovr, don't you dare shut up. I need this. I need an objective perspective because my thought process is still foggy and tangled.
