Wow Waves. What a predicament you are in. I am trying to put myself in your place but, of course, it is difficult. I am in the moving on phase but I would still take my H back if he was willing to do the work. How I will feel five years down the road, I’m not sure. I think you just need to take some time to figure out what you want with no pressure from either your XH or your new man. I think your path will eventually become clear. (((HUGS)))
