The fact that she is just ‘done’ with me and with everything in our MR.
I’ve had my suspicions, but not confirmation, of OM—I’m also not looking for it, either.
Originally Posted by LH19
Would it change anything for you if you found out today she was a WW?
The original purpose of my comment was for me to acknowledge to ST that my sitch is different than his.
However, what I’ve seen on these boards is that it really doesn’t make a difference whether the label is WAS/WS/MLC—they’re all relatively similar.
I have wondered if W is WW in the sense that morally she is much different than me (not that I ever expected us to be identical)—and she acknowledged that in the last couple of years she has changed a lot. I thought I saw that a WW can be wayward morally, although it tends to be used in the context of someone who is having some sort of A.
Would it matter to me if I found out today? Probably—I’d be much, much less willing to entertain the possibility of R’ing or piecing with her, and I would probably be more willing to go through the D / S.
