Mlc wife

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Hi R678

I think all you are feeling is normal
and you are trying to work out all that has transpired and possibly your way of dealing with the pain-
You may be stuffing or numb- and if you can get with a counselor-so you can heal
Therapy is helpful so we can grieve and get to the other side of MLC

I also think many MLCers will age quicker than usual due to their lifestyle
many play hard- drugs, alcohol, sex, gambling, hanging with wrong people
Risky behavior -any and all trouble
they live on the edge
and at 40-- it takes its toll

I would not give her any money
Im not sure what your agreement or situation is, but I would not enable her lifestyle unless money was agreed in separation/divorce
they have to figure out their life
they also overspend and can put us in debt-
credit cards and joint accounts need to be watched-

continue to take the best care of you-
remember none of this is about you-