Hi all I have a question which has been bugging me for a while now and I can’t work it out . Why do I ask myself am I married to this person did we have children together were we together for all those years because it seems like we weren’t but I know we were , is it because of how they distance from you or is it because my mind has altered I don’t know but it is all very surreal. Also the kids have said that she’s looking old and withdrawn big bags under her eyes looking tired does the crisis age them or is it something else . They also said that she is struggling for money and although this does play on my mind and I feel i should help something inside tells me no don’t and stops me although it’s against my nature I feel that she’s created this so she have to deal with it am I wrong in my thoughts .