Hey ST,

Unlike you, I don't think I have a WW (at least not confirmed).

I miss the hugs / kisses / touches, and yes, sex--but I'm just not sure how much I want it from her right now anyway.

It's been 2.5 months without sex--we've only done that when she's been gone on work trips--not even for NFP did we abstain for that long (usually it was like 2 weeks).

Hard to find W emotionally attractive, and trying to break up a family through D does not earn many points in my attraction book.

Every now and then she looks very good, but it's mostly 'meh,' and my attraction to her overall is 'meh.'

Like I've said before on my posts, lots of women look good in a cami, bra and jeans, but I'm sure there are many others who can look good and treat me better than W is right now.


M: 36
W: 30
T: 9
M: 7

S6 (OS)
S7mo (YS)

ILYBINILWY BD: Feb. ‘18

W Wants S / D BD: 1/4/19

H / W still in-house

D papers from W: 3/14/19