I assume no kids. Correct me if I am wring.



Just think of this as a vacation from the relationship. Focus on personal groth and your own happiness without H.

Change the way you interact.

Learn new communication skills. Start with validation and boundaries.

Read all of this thread:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2820685

I am sure you can use some of advise posted to her.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712