Dont blame yourself. Marriage is until death. Not until one gets tired or finds something better.

Yes, recognize your 50% of contributions to any unhappiness and do a 180 on those behaviors. It's time to work on yourself.

Dont make decisions or behave based on what he thinks or how he reacts. Better yourself for yourself.

M:16
T:21
H(me) 38
WW: 38
S11 D16 D19
Red Flags of A: March 2018
ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018
Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018
BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018
D Filed: March 27, 2019