I do not believe all cheaters are narcissistic. My H certainly isn't. He's just a broken man that craved external validation in desperate attempts to make himself feel good and happy. What's interesting to me is my H went into emotional crisis mode, and suicidal, when he knew I was going to find out, and immediately cut off all contact when I did. I don't think a narcissist would respond this way. But, whatever label you give it, it's irrelevant, isn't it? The result is the same. One or two broken people and a screwed up M.
