I came here because I'm not sure what to do or make of my spouses behavior (sorry, no short hand here because I can't keep track of what all those letters mean).
We've been together for 9 years, married for 2. Recently (about 7 months ago) his parents sold their family company out from under him and he has been employed by a new company (which he hates) Since then, he's spent more time away from the house, drinking, and avoiding me in general. We don't argue at all, we just don't communicate. I know he's depressed, based on how he has behaved in the past, and how he behaves now. He constantly says he's miserable and the only time he is happy is when he is away fishing or snowmobiling. He's been a complete jerk to me, both in private at home and in public. Last week, after us having difficulty for the past year or so, he told me that he didn't want to try and work on things and he just wanted us to go our separate ways. I kinda saw this coming so I was able to mentally prepare and not beg and plead and cry etc.
Its just strange because every since then he has been really nice to me. I'm trying to be detached but I'm just not sure what else to do. I left my home and moved across the country to be with him. I'm going to move back home in a month to be with my family. I don't know if this will help or hurt. Just looking for some advice?
