I have been doing alot of thinking about the interactions over the past 2 years. I might regret this but i am going to try and be more open to ex-h. I still will not accept abusive behavior but i will be a better listener when he wants to talk.
As i told him : keep doing the same thing and you' ll keep getting the same result. This goes for me aswell. I am going to approach this differently and hope it gets bearable to be around him. Maybe this is the " friendship" they claim to want?
