yeah buddy, good for you. I too read your comments to others and I'm happy that you're in a better place.
If it does anything, I feel like standing til you cant stand no more is the way to go. Only you know when you've had enough. Its good to know you listened to your wife and it took you all that time to get here. I'm sure you looked at that. I'm sure you looked at her asking you to get help and you did for hundreds of hours. If you were to predict how you would be now back then, could you see this person back then when you were doing the right things? I just wonder as you've gone down this path, if you are willing to stand a little longer? What if it takes your W hundred of hours of therapy, and countless people such as here to make her see the light? You said you were just like her so don't you think she could change too? Just wondering, unless you got other plans for something and the D is going to help you to get there.
I see you are a stronger person so no matter what W is doing, or if the D papers are signed or NOT, you keep doing you. It shows.
H 49 , W 47 T 23, M 17 S11, S5 BD: 7/18 IHS: 7/18 - 3/19 Physically Separated: 3/19-4/19 Piecing: 4/19 - Current
