I can't save every marriage, but if anything I do helps save at least one, I believe the effort is worth it.
You haven't helped save my marriage, R2C. That's TBD.
More importantly, you are a part of the many here on this board who have helped me save my LIFE.
*Insert double crying emoji*
H:39 W:30 M:4 T:9
05/2018: H says "ILYBNILWY", BD 07/2018: Discovered A, confronted 09/2018: PA + other details emerge; H moved out 12/2018: I filed 03/2019: Divorce finalized