Hi FS.

I second what Yorkie said. Not sure what is worst... being vocally critical or keeping your thoughts to yourself and allowing resentments to build. Neither are good...but at least the first one is honest. I hope that if your H comes back, that he is able to make some changes in that regard. If he isn’t, do you really want to live that way? You are such a strong, confident, capable woman... you deserve someone who is admiring of those qualities instead of being intimidated by them. (((HUGS)))