And last night after I posted this, I got to thinking. You know what Living, why not plan your own get away? And make sure it’s when he’s home with all the responsibilities. Plan a trip, go away and enjoy yourself. And send him pictures of the good time you’re having while he slaves away at home. Yea, I think that’s exactly what I’m going to do. I’m going to give him a taste of his own medicine.
You should absolutely take your trip. But I'd say do the opposite. Don't show him how much fun you're having. Just have your fun. I don't think playing games ever works out well. If you start texting him to make him jealous it's because you want a response out of him, and then it's not about you. You can only control you, so leave H home alone to do whatever he wishes.
If your long-term goal is a happy and healthy R with your husband, don't play games. Just do you and be a happy and healthy Living. If H wants to be with that person and you want to be with H - that's awesome. And if he only comes to you out of jealousy...you don't want that guy. That guy is kinda gross and insecure.
Yail, you’re absolutely correct. Thanks for correcting me on that. I think the human nature of us wants revenge. Lol! I’m definitely going to plan my trip. I am badly in need of a vacation. I think I’m going to go to a tropical spa resort. And I’ll be sure to just unwind, relax, and just enjoy myself. I truly need that with all that has happened!
Last edited by Living; 01/26/1904:26 PM.
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together
