And last night after I posted this, I got to thinking. You know what Living, why not plan your own get away? And make sure it’s when he’s home with all the responsibilities. Plan a trip, go away and enjoy yourself. And send him pictures of the good time you’re having while he slaves away at home. Yea, I think that’s exactly what I’m going to do. I’m going to give him a taste of his own medicine.
You should absolutely take your trip. But I'd say do the opposite. Don't show him how much fun you're having. Just have your fun. I don't think playing games ever works out well. If you start texting him to make him jealous it's because you want a response out of him, and then it's not about you. You can only control you, so leave H home alone to do whatever he wishes.
If your long-term goal is a happy and healthy R with your husband, don't play games. Just do you and be a happy and healthy Living. If H wants to be with that person and you want to be with H - that's awesome. And if he only comes to you out of jealousy...you don't want that guy. That guy is kinda gross and insecure.
