Right now he has fired you as his W so you can't treat him as him being your H. You should treat him as you are taking in a border. You ask him how his trip was but your not overly interested in it.
While he is gone try to make sure you are out every night so you don't have to fake it.
What kind of trip is he taking? Golf? Guys gone wild?
Great advice and great tips.
The trip will consist of some golfing, some hunting (rolling my eyes), and I’m pretty sure some guys gone wild. I’m sure he will act like a teenager who has just got a bit of freedom. As a matter of fact I expect that. I’m sure he will drink like a fish, bar hop, and probably flirt with any young pop tart that shows him any interest. Again, he’s going to be acting like a raging hormonal teenager or frat boy.
So when he comes back, I’ll do just as you suggested. I’ll ask how his trip went and then keep it moving. While he’s away, maybe I shouldn’t be available each time he calls and checks in. Because I’m positive he will do that. He’ll call at least one time per day and maybe sprinkle in a few text messages. He’ll probably send a couple of pictures of the sites he’s taking in, just like he did when he was on his glorious vacation...cough...I mean work trip to Hawaii. So I’ll be sure to keep my schedule busy during this trip.
And last night after I posted this, I got to thinking. You know what Living, why not plan your own get away? And make sure it’s when he’s home with all the responsibilities. Plan a trip, go away and enjoy yourself. And send him pictures of the good time you’re having while he slaves away at home. Yea, I think that’s exactly what I’m going to do. I’m going to give him a taste of his own medicine.
Last edited by Living; 01/26/1904:12 PM.
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together
