My H has a guys trip planned for the end of February and I’m not looking forward to who he’ll be when he comes back. I hope that makes sense. When he went away for the summer for his work trip he came back with the “oh I’m not happy” bomb drop. While he was away for 6 weeks this summer, I would tell him how much I missed him. When he got home, I told him I missed him.
My question is while he’s away this time, I should I act? I know that may be a stupid and obvious question. But I really don’t want him to think I was sitting back miserable while he was away. Even though I dread what person will show up when he returns, I don’t want that to be obvious. I know I can’t control him and the only person I have control over is myself. I just want to make sure I play this just right. I want to know how I should behave when he gets back. Any help or suggestions are appreciated.
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together
